A Scorpio man is naturally competitive. This competitive nature of a Scorpio makes him become a fierce opponent as he is devoted to winning. If he can steal a head start, he will do it. Very often, his rivals don't even know that the competition has begun. When they realize that they are in a competition, the Scorpio has already won the game and get the prize.
Obviously, a Scorpio doesn't want to be controlled. He likes to take the lead. If you are into a Scorpio man, or in a relationship with a Scorpio man, you have to really notice this. If once he feels that you are trying to control his life, he will just walk away. A woman who is involved in a relationship with a Scorpio finds that this relationship is intriguing. Sometimes her lover can be very nice and show truly great care for her. In another moment, this person can suddenly change.
If you are experiencing that condition, keep in your mind that a Scorpio man is also well known as impulsive. We can't easily guess what is in his mind, which is often very complex. Sometimes we have to think further in order to understand him.
One thing you don't have to worry about is his generosity towards you. A Scorpio is not selfish. He is constantly trying to improve himself too. Once a Scorpio man is in a relationship, mostly he will try whatever he can to control his emotions. He just doesn't want to lose his woman.